The Last Thing Is To Force The Feelings

In interpersonal relationships, the last thing is to force the feelings. Maybe once close, but later if alienated, it is alienated, if no, there is no more. Feelings are this kind of things existing only when both sides feel, if one party can’t feel, it’s no use to strive to force others or push yourself. Fickle is usually used as a derogatory term, but now I think it is a misunderstanding, how can you force a person to pretend to be enthusiastic? Estrangement may be chilling, but better than hypocrisy.

在人际关系中最不能勉强的就是感情。也许曾经亲密，但后来如果疏远了就是疏远了，没有了就是没有了。感情这种东西是双方都感觉到了才存在，如果一方感觉不到了，强拉硬拽是没用的。薄情寡义通常都用作贬义词，但我现在倒觉得是一种误解，你怎么能强迫一个人假装热情呢。疏远也许让人心凉，但比虚伪好。