Even though a man has thousands of merits, but if the one who gets along with him feels pain and depression, and only wants to escape, then all the merits of the man are ignored only his defect left.

一个人纵是有千般好，但与之相处的人感受到的都是痛苦与压抑、只想逃离，那么这人所有的好都只剩下不好。 ​